A Few Tips For Seducing Girls By Texting
Recently, I’ve experienced a dramatic improvement in my results when seducing girls by texting. It has been a long time coming, combining on-the-fly banter with more traditional seduction tactics. It’s not an easy game to win, but it’s well worth the journey.
I found out along the way that there are a lot of psychological tactics that do not work, and boy did I pay for them the hard way. You can avoid the mistakes I made by following a few tips.
The first thing I realized was that I had to make the first text count. I cannot stress enough how lame it feels to not get a text back because I came across as a chump. I now try to create a sense of excitement by blending several things when first contacting a woman.
The first message you send off shouldn’t just be one word or a greeting; make it a meaningful sentence but not a cheesy pick up line. Seducing girls by texting will never work if you sound boring. (Well, I can think of one exception. I met this nerdy girl that liked comic books and video games, and my inept, boring texts actually worked great. That is, until I didn’t like Neil Gaiman as much as she did. But I digress.)
The second thing I must emphasize is that your texting must contain an element of flirting. I try to be playful and fun with the object of my affection and it rarely fails these days. I also make it an objective to appear a bit mysterious and come off as way busier than I really am. For some reason, pushing back a little works well and makes them respond much more. Give them a little drama.
I also learned that it’s never a good idea to ask a girl out directly via text message. Use your texting for building attraction and interest, but when it comes to asking her out, do it over the phone or in person. I’m not really sure why this is, but if I had to guess, asking a girl out via text just comes off as wimpy. Be a man and pick up the phone.
Keep in mind that getting good at this is not an overnight project. Seducing girls by texting is going to take some practice and will require some self-confidence. Be bold with your texts and let her realize that you’re for real. Don’t be timid, but also avoid being pushy. It’s OK to be daring and say stuff that’s off the wall, as long as it is sincere. Being flashy or overly cocky will not work. You need to walk that fine line in the middle.
Oh, and women respond well to texting when there is a hint of naughtiness. But not too much! You will have to experiment and calibrate with this. One of my favorite things is to text something that could have a straightforward meaning or could be highly suggestive. Keep her guessing and you will keep her texting!
EDITOR’S NOTE: If you want to get serious about texting women, then check out
Steve Scott’s Flirt Mastery Course, which includes a separate guide on texting tactics, and
Benjamin May’s Text Game Secrets. Both are highly recommended.
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