How To Pickup Women Online – Without Looking Like An Idiot

March 26, 2010 by Ricky
Filed under: Seduction Blogs, Seduction Tips

Picking up women online had to be one of the hardest things I’ve ever done in regards to dating. I tried all the major websites, personal ads, and different places that I thought were easy to manage, but ended up striking out a lot. However, recently, I’ve tried some new things and they’ve been working out far better than anything in the past.

The first lesson I learned in regards to how to pickup women online was to take a clear photo. I’m not a photography wizard, but I noticed that my older photos, despite looking nice, didn’t work. I took a better photo, with a nice shirt, on a good day, and the response was way better than I could’ve ever imagined. One of the things I’ve noticed from talking to women online and in person has been that many email responses and ads they saw had blurred or obviously outdated photos. One of the most consistent pet peeves that I’ve heard when talking to women is the fact that a bait and switch happens. Sure, looks are important, but even an ugly guy has a shot with a nice woman when the picture is clear and honest.

Confidence is key when you try to pickup women online. Overconfidence can sink you, but when you are sincere and highlight the positive aspects of your personality, you’ll find that you stand a decent chance to win over a woman online. The reason why this has worked in my experience is simply because most women online have been hit on constantly by men who are either obsessed with sex or so outgoing that it makes them nervous. Remember, there are a lot of weirdos online, and as soon as a woman thinks you’re weird, you’re finished. Even if all you’re after is a quick roll in the sack, you need to disguise that aspect.

Another way to pickup women online is to avoid asking a woman out until after five or six emails. That’s right, you have to wait. There has been only one time where I managed to meet a woman online by asking her out prematurely, but that was only because within two emails there was an obvious chemistry that couldn’t be denied. It worked once, I then got a little overconfident and tried it again, and it failed. Not all women will respond well to meeting right away, there are just too many horror stories that stem from that. However, if she makes the first move, the whole game changes.

Yes, if she asks to meet, maybe it’s in the cards. However, be wary, there are some seriously psycho women out there! I once agreed to meet a girl at a bar, and it turned out that she was certifiably insane and had too many issues to overlook. She ended up calling me often and annoying me for a long time. I eventually had to change my cell phone number and since then I’ve managed to be a little more cautious before meeting any woman.

Remember, when you pickup women online, you need to be selective. Take your time if you aren’t feeling the chemistry, and never act desperate. You hold a lot of control over the situation, so make sure you’re levelheaded when acting upon any desire.

Good luck out there!

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