Seduction Is Not All About Sex And Not All About You
Somehow amongst all of the gambits, books, and TV shows, one of the central themes of pick-up seems to have been lost. When strangers and newbies to the community talk about this skill set, the conversation always focuses on getting laid and has a mischievous and somewhat amoral undertone. It’s unfortunate, because in the end, pick-up is about so much more than getting your rocks off.
Opinion: “Bad Boy” Is A Myth?
Some of the opinions and hints underlying seduction have been repeated so often that we almost reflexively believe them, even though they may not truly be accurate. This is the case with the “bad boy” myth, a position so frequently held that many consider it “common knowledge”. A closer examination of the “bad boy” myth, however, reveals that it is far from true. A dissection of this often-repeated perspective gives us some great insight on how the seduction of women really operates. Read more
Are You An Average Frustrated Chump (AFC)? Take The First Step!
So you’ve stumbled upon the seduction community. You saw a TV show about pick up artists or saw a copy of The Game in a bookstore and wondered if it all was real? Or perhaps your quest for self-improvement or the realization that it is finally time to make a change in your life has led you here.
Regardless of how and why someone has chosen to embark upon this life-changing journey, one thing is for sure: Information Overload. Not sure where to start? It’s okay, take a deep breath and relax as you take your First Step into the world of pick up. Read more
Where To Sarge? Think Outside The Bar.
I posted last week about the importance of inner game. Not that, by any means, I feel that this subject has been exhausted; but in the interest of diversity I will cover where this path leads us, much as a general tells his troops of the accolades waiting for them in the city they have to capture rather than the miserable nights of forced marches that will make it happen. Thus it is that this time, I feel like I should delve into inner game’s more important implications for people. Read more
Priority of the Inner Game (Introducing JC)
Well, here I am, I say to myself as I plop down to write my first post: it has been a little under two years since my first girlfriend, who like most guys I was very attached to, left me in a particularly brutal manner. Since that time, I have taken the PUA ideas to heart, read a good portion of the literature out there, been rejected by dozens of women at varying stages of interactions for varying reasons, met some interesting people, and have become much better at flirting in general.
I have always found the most important thing for a PUA is also the least concretely addressed in all the various literature. To me, it seems the secret to all these attributes of a true rake, like not caring one way or the other about any particular woman, being able to waltz up to just about anyone and start talking with them on any subject, and moreover to understand women as they are, not as we would like them to be, all boils down to one thing. Read more
Shattering Reality: Rethink What You Know About Women (Introducing Kitt O)
Despite what you may believe, seduction experts weren’t born with lady killer skills. The master seducer starts out like you and I, frustrated, bewildered and overwhelmed by ideas revolving around sex and romance. He too grew up under the illusion that women are innocent, fragile creatures who must be wooed and worshiped for their affection. Then something happens to shatter that lie, forever. Here begins my story. Read more
A Method to Help Overcome Approach Anxiety
One of the biggest hurdles that fledgling pickup artists encounter is approach anxiety. No one likes to get rejected or embarrassed, especially by a beautiful woman, as the resulting feeling can be acutely harmful to one’s pride. I have seen new students of seduction literally become paralyzed with terror over making an approach. Obviously, when approach anxiety reaches this level of debilitation, something has to be done. How are you going to approach these women while projecting an air of confidence or not-caring when your knees are buckling? Read more
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